It's a Shame...

As I've stated before, it's shameful what it takes to get some people to come together. These days it seems as though no one is there for their fellow classmate, neighbor, or even family member, until it is too late.

Yesterday, a boy attending my former high school took his life. Why he took his life is unbeknownst to me and many others, whether they claim to know the reason or not. The truth is, no one will ever really know what the boy's final thoughts were. All we know now is that he is gone.

Many Crescenta Valley students and graduates have been sending their condolences and writing statuses regarding the issue all over Facebook. While many people did know him, or at least knew of him, countless others are jumping in to join the "support system". I'm sure some do have genuinely good intentions, but I also believe there are just as many people, if not more, that are just hopping on the band wagon because it's what everyone else is doing. It's sickening to think that mourning a individual's death has become a trend...But the truth of the matter is, while everyone may seem together now, more than half of these students will forget about the impact of this event within the next two weeks. Unfortunately, for those who witnessed the incident, that image may never be erased from their memories.

Back last April, I wrote a piece entitled "All You Have To Do Is Ask". The message of this entry was that I would be there for anyone who needed me, regardless of our past or present conflicts. Back then, I was writing from the standpoint of someone who was asking for that kind of support from someone. Now I'm looking back on it, no longer lacking that support but still completely willing to give it...to anyone. While I can't speak for the deceased, that poor boy who took his life the other day probably could have used the support of someone with that mindset.  Keeping that in mind, I think everyone should be just a little more understanding of others' situations, and reach out to those in need, whether you're friends, acquaintences, strangers, or even enemies. If someone is in need, that is all that should matter.

We have to be there for each other, not just as students, coworkers, or neighbors, but as human beings.

R.I.P. Drew Ferraro
While I didn't know you, I have heard nothing but good things. I know you're in a better place now.